Wednesday, February 16, 2011

good leaders are made,not born.

Leadership has been described as the “process of social influence in which one person can enlist the aid and support of others in the accomplishment of a common task”. Definitions more inclusive of followers have also emerged. Alan Keith of Genentech states that, "Leadership is ultimately about creating a way for people to contribute to making something extraordinary happen." According to Ken "SKC" Ogbonnia, "effective leadership is the ability to successfully integrate and maximize available resources within the internal and external environment for the attainment of organizational or societal goals."

Leadership is "organizing a group of people to achieve a common goal." The leader may or may not have any formal authority. Students of leadership have produced theories involving traits,[1] situational interaction, function, behavior, power, vision and values,[2] charisma, and intelligence among others.
Arieu, A. defines a leader as "a person capable of inspiring and associate others with a dream." It is therefore important that organizations have a mission high transcendent, since it is a powerful way to strengthen the leadership of its directors.

Great leaders are not born, they are made. It requires years to create a leader. Experience is one of the best ingredient that help people to become a great leader. If you ever fail or having problem, never say “I give up”. Instead, you should be grateful because leaders are made from those exceptional bits and pieces. Lenka said ‘Trouble is a friend’ in her song. Believe me, it’s really true. Troubles, failures, problems, they are teachers who teach us how to become a great leader. They improve our unique strengths and skills in silence, from time to time

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

birth of trait???

hi i want to share about the title above

The environment that a child is raised in plays a big part in how their personality will develop. Consequently many child will exhibit different character traits and characteristics depending on their birth order or if they are an only child. Of course birth order doesn't guarantee that your first child will have all or even any of the traits typically associated with a first child; but birth order tends to accentuate character traits that your child already possesses. Of course if there are large gaps between your children or you have one boy in a family of girls you might have overlapping birth order characteristics.

Here is a table showing some of the birth order character traits, both bad and good, associated with first, middle, last-born, and only children.

first Middle Last Only
Natural Leader Flexible Risk-taker Close to parents
High Achiever Easy-going Outgoing Self-control
Organized Social Creative Leader
On-time Peacemakers Self-centered Mature
Know-it-all Independent Financially irresponsible Dependable
Bossy Secretive Competitive Demanding
Responsible May feel life is unfair Bored easily Unforgiving
Adult-pleaser Strong negotiator Likes to be pampered Private
Obeys the rules Generous Sense of humor Sensitive

Egypt-in conflict

   For over two weeks,malaysians have be shocked by the choas in Egypt. Malaysian students and workers there are worried for their safety. Phone calls and internet blocked,thus preventing parents,friend and relatives from contacting them.

   It is said that the major factor this phenomenon was the refusal of "Hosni Mubarak",the prime minister of egypt,to step back and let hold of this post. This leads to anger and dissatisfaction to the community of Egyptian,provoking them to riot that have continued since the January 25,and have spread over big cities such as Alexandria,Mansoura, Cairo, Suez, Damiyat and Tanta. This,however,concerns the Malaysians in Egypt.Approximately there were 11,000 of Malaysians in Egypt with most of them being students. When the riot started,most of student were having exams,with part of them being on holiday.


what is love???????

hello everyone knows about love, right? here we want to share about what is love? of our common love this .. love God, love people and love animals.our entries to shared why is there love? and what is the real love for fellow human beings. .. we think all people have a sense of love, right? and it is not impossible if one has never been in love? may have a sex during school days, right?ok guys..your can read what is love??according  to this not sure of right or wrong facts..hehe..

“When you look at love, you're looking into the face of appreciation.”

Throughout the history of mankind, we as a world culture have made love out to be mysterious, complex, difficult, and undefinable. It’s the subject of endless poems and literary works. There is an enormous amount of material available out there about love, a lot of it contradictory.
We’ve been given the impression that to define love is near to impossible. Maybe there’s a fear that if we define it, it would somehow be less powerful...less impactful...less exhilarating. Maybe we like the mystery of it. But is it really that complicated? Perhaps the complications surrounding love come from all “stuff” we add on to this powerful emotion. Lets drop all the baggage surrounding relationships and define what it is we are experiencing in the moment of love.

"Basic components of love "

What do you feel when you love someone? If distilled down to it’s core components, what would those be? Yes, love is an emotion, a feeling, a wanting, and a “being”. We know it feels good, but what specific feelings, wantings, and beings are present when we feel love? Here are the common denominators of love...

"Love is accepting" 

Acceptance is labeling someone as "okay" and having no particular desire to change them. Who they are is perfectly fine with you. You pose no condition on whether you will love them or not. This is call unconditional love. When your love IS conditional, the moment they step outside your set of conditions, love evaporated.

"How do we express love??"

We don’t always express our love. Love is a feeling and the expression of that feeling is separate. It’s an action. There’s a practical reason we don’t always express our love for another. It’s an issue of TIME. We only have 24 hours in a day (if you make it up that way). If the expression of love was a core ingredient to love, we would have to be stingy with who we loved, because there simply wouldn’t be enough time to demonstrate our love for everyone! If you see the distinction between the feeling and the expression, you can then love endless numbers of people.


Love expressed is when you give your attention, your time, your focus to someone. Webster defines attention as “the giving of one’s mind to something." There are many ways in which we give our attention to another. We use our five senses. Our ears to listen. Being completely present with the one who is speaking. Our eyes, watching another, undivided attention. Tasting/smelling? (I’ll let you figure that one out). Touching, giving a hug, holding a hand, a caress, or sexual expression. How you express your love depends on the type of relationship.


What do you think after reading this fact .. are you sure you are fallen in love?? or you want to try to make love, if you've fallen in love with someone .... tells faster! hope you all get a little courage to tell us what you think of someone you love...

ok..bye everyone...see you again... 

to all my friend..